Can I offer a story or list a request for a game on the site?
You bet. If you are a member, go to News Articles under the Coach's Box menu. Enter your information and the story will appear in the list of recently submitted articles!
I log in and on the very next page it says I'm not logged in!
In Internet Explorer 7 try going to the Tools Menu, Internet Options, then click on the Security tab, the Trusted sites icon (check mark), then the sites button. In the resulting window enter http://*.socalsoccer.org. At the bottom of that window may be a checkbox concerning using secure server, make sure it is turned off. Then Ok/save your way back to the main screen. Go to the website at http://www.socalsoccer.org and try logging in.